Is she not ready for a relationship or stringing me along?

She's stringing you along. It's time to get off the computer and go out in the world and make human contact from the get go. Have you ever heard Brad Paisley's I'm so much cooler online? Of course things are different in person, you can be whomever you choose to be online but in person it's a whole different playing field. Consider this a lesson learned and go out there and find someone who truly appreciates you and genuinely wants to be with you.